Have you ever wondered how your choice of diabetes care affects your other half? Maybe you discussed it with them before you got the pump.. or opted for no pump. Maybe he said, "Whatever you feel works best for you." Either way we know they have an opinion, but do the express it.
We all know that diabetes is a family condition. There isn't one single person living with you that isn't affected by some aspect of it. Be it a super grumpy high or a "clean up the carnage in the kitchen" low, the family feels it too. Plans can be delayed, or changed, because mommy (or daddy or sibling) does not feel good. I know I do everything within my power to be as healthy and in range as possible to maintain as 'normal' of a life as possible. But lets face it, diabetes has a mind of it's own sometimes.
Last night my husband notice the spot on my arm where my last Dexcom sensor was. It left a bit of a red spot and a small bump. It had been there for three weeks. (YES.. 21 days, can you believe it. WOOHOO!.. Um.. I mean.. not recommended... I digress.) While we were talking about how long my sensor sites stay on and how long my infusion sites stay on, it dawned on me, I never asked his opinion of all my robotic body parts. We joke about them, refer to them as family members with given names, talk about how they are moody sometimes, etc. So I asked him, "How do you feel me having a pump and CGM has personally affected you?" I prefaced it by saying he couldn't refer to me at all in his answer. He tried though. After a couple answers where I was still mentioned, I told him to be utterly selfish and think of only himself. He finally said, "I like the pump and CGM because it makes things feel more normal, and normal feels good."